In India, family is at the heart of everyday life and getting married is probably one of the most important occasions in the lives of most young people and their parents. If television is any indicator of what people care about, all you have to do is randomly tune in to one of the many serialized dramas invariably devoted to intrigue within the family, often featuring a sinister mother-in-law and her tearful but possibly scheming "bahu,' or daughter-in-law. Read